Friday, November 7, 2025
Klaus Wulfenbach/Melanippe of Themiscyra Has Died
Wednesday, October 29, 2025
Cartoon of The Day: Dying in SL
Wednesday, October 1, 2025
Black Dragon Viewer May Be "Dying"
Let me say that i feel you.
I'm sorry for the lack of updates and communication. Life has been steadily getting harder and you aren't the only one who dropped out of Patreon. Over time the amount of people subscribed to Patreon has steadily declined to the point i could no longer keep up with the increasing demands of my dirty capitalist country so for several months now i've been falling short on cash, at first i was able to churn through with some saved up money but it never recovered and i was eventually forced to make a decision, either end it here or find another way.
I was determined to make it work somehow... it's only a couple eurons missing right? So i started taking comissions after several people requested them, told me i should do comissions because they are eager to pay for my work. So aside from working on the Viewer and my other million projects as well as juggling real life and friends, i'm now also juggling comissions to earn that little bit of missing cash.
This took away time from the Viewer obviously, which resulted in the development getting slower and slower and more and more comissions had to be taken to make up for the steadily increasing lack of patreon funds. This created a death spiral, more comissions, less development, less patrons, less money, more comissions and so on...
I didn't say anything because i didn't want to worry anyone nor do i want to beg for money, after all if people don't want to support me anymore then that's their choice and a completely legit reason. No one is forcing anyone to support me but as much as i don't want to say it, the Viewer does depend on me and i depend on this money... and with the grips tightening to the point that i feel like i can no longer offset the missing funds and with that one message giving me a big wake up call, i think it might finally time to say it: I do not think i can make this work much longer, the next month might already not work out anymore. So unless this somehow stabilizes again we will soon have to switch from very little communication to no communication... as in shutting the light off.
I hate saying this but: the Viewer is dying.
Patreon is what kept the Viewer alive. Everyone who financially supported me kept this Viewer alive several many more years than anticipated. Thank you everyone for that.
Monday, March 27, 2023
Xzavia Yifu's Memorial Service
Saturday, November 12, 2022
Sunweaver Jenn Chant Has Died
Jenn Chant has passed away at 4:30 pm p.s.t. due to heart failure brought on by severe lactic acidosis.
Rest in peace.
Saturday, July 9, 2022
Musician Paul Nowles Has Died
Second Life musician Paul Nowles has passed away. The news was announced by the Second Life Enquirer yesterday that he had died Thursday July 7. Paul had been an active live musician on the grid for a number of years, performing at places such as Veterans Isle, Raglan Shire, Patriot Island, Club Lion, The Firestorm Gateway, and others. This included numerous charity events, as well as for memorial tributes.
The Second Life Enquirer would say of him, "Paul was a beautiful soul who shared his talent with fans across the grid. Not only was he a great entertainer, but he was also kind and a dear friend to not only us but to many. Our most heartfelt condolences go out to his family and friends. He will be missed by many."
The Enquirer would reprint a September 2020 interview, which can be read (here).
Sunday, July 3, 2022
Sue Peregrine Has Died
It is with much sadness that the Relay Rockers announce the passing of our long time member, past Captain and dear friend Sue Peregrine on Wednesday June 29, following a long illness.
Sue owned dAlliez Estates, founded in 2004 by her late mother Alliez Mysterio. dAlliez Estates at one time consisted of more than 160 regions, and set the standard for region rentals in Second Life.
Sue was a member of the Relay Rockers for many years and served as Team Captain in 2015. That same year she was honored by Relay as a member of the first class of Community Champions, given in recognition of her many contributions to the ACS community, notably Relay dAlliez, the region she provided for the use of all RFL teams for their events.
Sue is survived by her husband, her three sons and two grandchildren. Anyone wishing to honor her memory may do so by making a donation to the American Cancer Society.
From the RFL Volunteers group
Thursday, March 31, 2022
Announcement: Relay Rap April 3rd - "When A Survivor Loses The Fight"
On April 3rd, Relay Rap addresses a difficult subject, 'When A Survivor Loses The Fight'
It is an unfortunate reality in Relay For Life that we lose friends and loved ones to cancer.
Join us as a panel of caregivers share their stories and experiences and provide their unique insight into this complex and sensitive topic.
Hear how they dealt with the loss of their loved one.
Find out how we all can better support those who are grieving.
Learn how the American Cancer Society provides support for those faced with end of life situations due to cancer.
Expected guests:
Tara Tisane
Eclair Martinek
Ethy Dragoste Firehawk-Knight
Sabrina Rhodes
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/American%20Cancer%20Society/63/218/36
Wednesday, July 21, 2021
VWBPE Announces Delightful Doowangle (Barbara Truman) Has Died
Barbara Truman, 1962-2021
Barbara had over 20 years of experience in US higher education as an educator, scholar, administrator, and researcher.
In these roles, she participated in national and state associations, presented on critical educational topics, and published articles related to teaching and learning with mediated technology.
Barbara’s doctoral research, conducted in virtual worlds, explored why vesting in immersive, virtual communities using embodied avatars matters.
Since February 24, 2006, Barbara was active as an advocate and connectivist who built bridges for virtual world communities and championed learning in virtual worlds.
She donated her time to over a dozen virtual world groups, organizations, and conferences to strengthen virtual world education.
Her doctoral research, exploring why vesting in virtual communities matters, anchored her transdisciplinarity research with the MIT Presencing Institute, advancing our understanding of embodiment as virtual physioception and virtual-intersubjective presencing.
Barbara received the Thinkerer Award in 2019 for her outstanding dedication and leadership in education. We are so fortunate to have been able to recognize her and her efforts.
If you would like to offer a tribute in memory of Barbara or send condolences to the family you can follow this link https://www.acommunityfuneralhome.com/obi.../Barbara-Truman/
Wednesday, May 20, 2020
Remembering Cerdwin Flanagan
Fans of the Fantasy Faire, which took place just days ago, got some shocking news. Cerdwin Flanagan, a host of the event whom featured the festival prominently in her profile, has died. Word began getting around a couple days ago.On the Fantasy Faire group, there were a number of comments expressing surprise and sadness. one,Sweecahcahche Ah, had a tribute for her.
Morning everyone, I would just like to pass on my Love and best wishes to everyone who knew Cer (Cerdwin Flanagan) who passed away too soon from this life. She will be sadly missed by many of us and I for one only met her at this years events but immediately was made welcome and had some fun times fooling around during the Coffee (Covfefe) Mornings hosted by cer. I have a link to my Tribute to cer on Flickr with pictures of many of you in it, please feel free to tag yourselves and leave comments. keep safe Love Titchy SweePea https://www.flickr.com/photos/89231395@N04/49915584092
You left us without warning Cer
Not even a goodbye
And I can't seem to stop
Asking the question Why?
We met one Fantasy Faire morning
For coffee and some fun
But when you left to Heaven
You took from us the sun.
Your coffee could brighten anyone's day
No matter what they were going through
But this world became much brighter
For having just met you...
For those wishing to pay there respects, a memorial has been set up at Acres (74/18/24). People can check out her screenshots on her Flickr page at https://www.flickr.com/photos/cerdwin/ .
Monday, May 18, 2020
Looking Back at ComCat Fenstalker
The Sunweaver community and the Meli's Maniacs Relay team got some sad news this weekend. ComCat Fenstalker, also known by her display name CC, had passed away. The Newser talked to a couple people who knew her, Dusk Griswold and Violet Solano, who both had a number of things to say about her.
Read more in People.
Monday, February 18, 2019
Musician Chip Takacs Dies, Was Minutes From Performance on Stage
In Second Life, we often take many things into consideration. But seldom do we think about death. Sometimes when it arrives, we have a little warning such as when someone announces he or she has cancer and has to take a break from the Grid and later on we sadly hear the person has passed away. Other times, the news comes to us as shock and surprise as someone who was doing fine one day is suddenly dead. Last week however, there was a case in which a man died at his computer just minutes after talking to others and with his avatar still around.
Over the weekend, I heard about the passing of a musician named Chip Takacs. Jen Smith had posted the news on Facebook early Wednesday February 13. She would later post something from Lisa Lavoie.Just to maybe save someone from having to repeat what happened... Chip was in SL Tuesday morning, around 8am SLT to do a show. He was typing to people in local...and joking around with them, like he always did. A couple of minutes before 8am SLT, they put his stream in as he was getting onto the stage. But he never turned the stream on and never started playing. After awhile, they thought maybe he'd fallen asleep. When it was time for the next performer to go on, they bumped Chip's avi off the stage so the next performer could play.
This afternoon, they found out that Chip had passed away. A RL friend of his, who is also a performer in SL, confirmed it after speaking with Chip's RL wife. Speculation is a massive heart attack, but they are going to do a private autopsy to verify that.
As of the time I write this...which is nearing midnight SLT...Chip is still logged in and standing in front of the stage where he never got to do that final show. His computer is still logged in and no one has shut it down. Once that happens, or the sim restarts....he won't be in SL anymore either.
Around 9pm a small group gathered where Chip stands to try and console each other and deal with the shock of losing another SL musician and friend. It started with a handful of us...and as I logged out at midnight SLT, there were 60+ standing around swapping stories, passing the mic and spreading the word that we lost another one.
The uniqueness of this loss was that Chip was still with us in SL. He's still there, as we remember him....but he's not really there. He's really gone. It was both eerie and comforting to be able to stand there with him...in honor of what he meant to each of us individually. It was quite a moment in my SL history. When we all just stood there with a fallen friend, not wanting to leave him standing alone....knowing that at some point, he will be logged out for the final time.
There were numerous messages of condolences after Jen Smith's post, "So sad to hear of his passing (sad) He was one of a kind. He will be missed. RIP Chip." "RIP Chip my friend.You will never be forgotten, always in my heart." "Chip was a Great Person." On Second Life, there was a memorial concert for Chip on the night of Friday February 15, scheduled to last until Saturday morning, "it is booked solid until 9:30am SLT on Saturday morning....and that's just from the performers who were standing there with Chip tonight."Chip, or Michael Taska as he's known there, does have a recording of him singing on Youtube.
For many users, the sudden passing of someone is something they do not know how to react to. To many others, it's a reminder that death can come without warning, even while you're seemingly safe at your computer. In any event, it's a sad time for the friends and family of this musician in real life and Second Life.
Hat Tip: Annie Oh (AnnieBrightstar Resident)
Bixyl Shuftan
Friday, November 2, 2018
When A Friend Passes Away
Deaflegacy recently experienced a personal tragedy when one of her closest friends in real life died. Saying goodbye to someone you care about is never easy. It's even harder when that someone departs to the hereafter. Deaflegacy wrote a few words about her friend, mentioning she's not alone in having lost someone they care about.
Read Deaflegacy's story in People.
Wednesday, October 10, 2018
Sunweaver Akea Grommet Has Died
On the evening of Tuesday October 9, sad news hit the Sunweaver community. Longtime member Akea Grommet, had died following a five day stay in the hospital. His partner, Angel Scaraborough, gave the following announcement.
We have lost the Coon (Akea Grommet)
Akea was in the hospital from October 4th - October 9th. He was starting to do better, just waiting for some further tests, when he passed away very suddenly this morning. Sunweavers was very important to Akea and I know many here cared for him so I wanted to let everyone know as soon as I could. I am sorry that I don't have any other information. I was going to call the hospital tomorrow to check on him and then received word today that he had passed this morning.
Akea has been a part of the Sunweaver community for most of it's
history, since 2008 or 2009. As a DJ, he would perform at Club Cutlass,
often dressed in theme for the event. There is one record of a song he
sung, "Rocky Top Tennessee." For the past few years, he was seen less and had stopped DJing. But would still come on once in a while. I personally last saw him at the Happy Vixen some weeks ago at an event, in good spirits, and welcoming those he hadn't seen before. As news of his passing spread, various Sunweavers, and some of his friends from Seal Cove dropped by Akea and Angel's house. People shared memories and talked about good times they had with him. Angel would put up a slide show of pictures.
"Thank you again everyone for coming," Angel told everyone, "I truly believe that Akea knows about and is touched by this gathering for him."
Rest in Peace.
Bixyl Shuftan
Wednesday, June 6, 2018
"Your Mother Has Cancer"
Deaflegacy told be recently it was her mother's birthday. It was a happy occasion in the past, but today it was a sad reminder as she had passed away almost five years ago, from cancer. In her article today, she writes about her last time with her mother, and goes on to say the cause of her death is why she supports the Relay for Life in Second Life.
Read Deaflegacy's story in People.
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
Raftwet Jewell, Co-Owner of "The A List" Has Died
On Monday January 8, Xavier Thiebaud, one of two co-founders of "The A List" group in Second Life had a sad announcement. His wife inworld, and fellow A List co-founder, Raftwet Jewell, was no longer alive.
With heartfelt tears. I wish to inform our members. Raftwet Jewell co owner of The A List! passed away from a heart attack. She was incredibly proud of what her and I created with the community we meticulously cultivated.I will be organizing a celebration of 2nd Life on what is her 10th Rez day this 3rd of February. Any of you who knew her, knew how supportive she was helping. if you wish to assist in anyway. Please drop me a note card. Further information will be given soon
Raftwet Jewell , February 3rd 2008 - 2018
Grease Coakes wrote about "The A List" in 2012. It bills itself as "Second Life's premiere destination guide on being the first to know what is happening," and is a group where events in General and Mature-rated areas can be announced. Events in Adult areas cannot be mentioned there, even if there will be nothing lewd going on.
Friday, December 29, 2017
Announcement: Dassani Storm of RFL Team Bonanza Has Died
Yesterday afternoon, there was some sad news for the Relay for Life volunteers and Team Bonanza. Team Captain Bella 1Abbot announced one of their members, Dassani Storm, had passed away.
It is with the deepest sadness that I tell you that our dear friend, Dassani Storm passed away today, December 27, 2017. She fought a brave fight against a very aggressive cancer. We ask that you remember her friends and family both in SL and in RL at this time in prayer. We will have a memorial service for her in the next few weeks. We will let you know the arrangements.
We will miss her , We loved her.
Some day......you might learn of me. Til then.....smiles
They ask me: "Why are you always there for the others,
even though you are not feeling well yourself?" My
answer is: "Because I know how it feels when everybody
looks the other way"
Wednesday, November 29, 2017
Reader Submitted: Mourning in Second Life
We enjoy being with friends and family. But unfortunately, accidents and illnesses can happen, and eventually there comes a day for each of us when we pass away. In real life, there are obituaries announcing the person's death, funerals to go to, and usually a lasting place for the deceased. Online however, often the only sign something is wrong is our friend suddenly stops coming on. And if we do get word, what is to be done? For those in Second Life in which people are free to build what they want to on their lands, there are those who chose to make places to honor those lost. Alura Messing recently sent a reader submission on the subject, describing her personal experience, and three places in Second Life where those whom have departed have a place where their names remain.
Read Alura's reader submission in Extra.
Wednesday, October 11, 2017
"I May Be Done" The Husband of A Warcraft Couple Talks about His Wife's Passing
We often think of computer gamers as immature loners, and when they do find someone and get married, what comes to mind is the game being a source of friction between a computer-free wife and game-addicted husband. But there are couples whom happily game together. Recently however, one such gamer has had to deal with the grief and lost as his wife, whom played "World of Warcraft" with him for years, had passed away. Feeling some of her friends would wonder why she was gone, he posted his feelings on the Blizzard forums. He didn't expect the outpouring of sympathy that followed.
Read more in "Other Grids, MMOs, and Games."
Monday, March 20, 2017
Flonne Ninetails Has Died
Ranchan Weidman, the owner of HV Community where the SL Newser office resides, announced that a friend of hers, Flonne Ninetails, had passed away.
For those that have known Flonne Ninetails, either in passing chats or on more deeper levels; from being friends or family with Flonne, both in Real life and Secondlife, it saddens me to pass along the news that early this march, for those that didn't know yet, Flonne passed away. Our hearts and wishes go out to you. The strength and personality shared by Flonne, even under the medical issues being battled, will forever resonate in our hearts. May you Rest in Peace, Sis.
Flonne's profile listed her age as 29. Besides Tiny Empires, she was involved in a few sci-fi roleplay groups.




















